Also remember, there are times when things are out of your own hands. Jesus was falsely accused, rejected and betrayed. It happens to the best of the best. In those times, it's necessary for everyone just to move forward, and not look back into what should be kept in the past, Shake the sand off of your shoes and move forward...,seek out what is good and peaceful. Love. Forgive. Keep on the forward journey and never lay down your calling for the sake of people pleasing. They were not called into your walk and destiny - you were. We each are.
If you become determined to look for the good in other people and situations, that is exactly what you will eventually discover becoming a natural habit in your life and you will automatically see the good before and above all else.
I'm not saying not to live in reality and denial of bad things happening, but I am saying it's beneficial to make a point to see life from a higher perspective and vantage point.