We know we have become selfless when it becomes all about Him ~ for them ~ and no longer just all about "me".
"This is My commandment: that you love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than to lay down his own life for his friends. You are My friends if you keep on doing the things which I command you to do." John 15: 12-14
"This is My commandment: that you love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than to lay down his own life for his friends. You are My friends if you keep on doing the things which I command you to do." John 15: 12-14